Questions of a Scared Six-Year-Old

Last night our son approached us with a huge look of concern on his face.  He was suddenly terrified of tornadoes.  The questions spilled out of him, catching us off-guard as they have in the past.  We did our best to keep up.

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What happens if a tornado comes?
That would be very rare.  We don’t really get them here, so don’t worry, okay?

Could a tornado take our house down?
We have an old, strong house – it’d be fine.  Besides, we don’t get tornadoes here.

But where would we go if a tornado came?
Well, the weather experts would be able to tell us way ahead of time if a tornado were coming, and if it were, we could drive to safety or go down to the basement.

But if we were in the basement, what if the tornado took away the kitchen floor [the basement ceiling]?  Then it could get in!
[wasn’t sure how to answer that one, but that was okay because his questions kept flowing]

What if it came when we were sleeping?
Honey, the weather experts know really far ahead of time when storms are coming.  We’d have lots of warning, we’d know days ahead, and could travel to safety if needed.

But what if we were driving away and the storm came in the direction we were driving?

What if someone only had wood walls and the storm came?  What would happen to them?
Well, they’d go to the basement.  But if they didn’t have a basement, they could drive somewhere or go to a neighbour’s house with a basement.

Then… the questions took on a more spiritual/religious/philosophical flavour.  *sigh*  My husband and I consider ourselves spiritual rather than religious, so we did our best to answer his mind-expanding questions on-the-fly, not having consulted with each other in advance.

When people die do they become angels, or are they just ghosts?
They become angels.  The good people become angels.

Do they help God?
Yes, they help God and they help the people here on Earth.

When I die I’m going to stop tornadoes.  I’m not going to help God with them.  Why does he make tornadoes?
[I was pretty perplexed at this point, so I’m not exactly sure how I answered that one.]

How did God begin?  How did the earth start?  When was it just space out there?  How long ago was it that nothing was alive on Earth?
[Kid, people spend their entire lives exploring questions like this.  How the heck would I know? – Okay, I didn’t really say that, but seriously?!]

I’ve decided that nothing – no education, no experience – fully prepares you to answer (well) questions like these from a concerned six-year-old.

By the time I tucked J into bed, he thankfully (though strangely) felt much calmer and fell quickly into a deep sleep.  My mind, on the other hand, was reeling…

About Christine

Positive thinker. Writer. Lover of travel and adventure, oceans and mountains, and the energy of a big city. Oh, and deep belly laughs, sappy movies and spirited conversations. Believer in limitless human potential.
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23 Responses to Questions of a Scared Six-Year-Old

  1. Alex says:

    Welcome to motherhood 😉
    I have being asked many questions. For some reasons the first 2 didn’t ask as many weird questions…kind of eased me into it and got me prepared for little C who truly makes up for everyone. She has asked the most deep and unusual question. And not just to me. My mother-in-law was really uncomfortable one day when C asked her why she got divorced. MIL looked at me with a big question on her face. C was about 5 I think. I told MIL to tell her the truth, in an appropriate way. C sees through the lies/bs that adults tend to give to kids.
    My advice (not sure if you were asking for it..), be truthful as much as possible. With the spirituality/religion “stuff”, share your opinions but I think we should always explain that these are our beliefs and that sometimes we don’t know the answer. Beliefs vs facts…

    • I’m always happy to get your comments, Alex – thanks!

      I totally agree – be truthful yet keep it appropriate to the age of the child. Kids are wise and pick up on things that many adults think are beyond them, as is the case with your youngest.

      When it comes to spiritual matters, I usually try to approach it with, “well, some people believe…” and “others believe…” – but sometimes it doesn’t come out so well when I’m unprepared. Arrrgh. 😉

  2. Sarah Ruggaber says:

    Is that what we have to start preparing for? I am not sure how we would have dealt with those questions. I guess we would start thinking now.

  3. Kira says:

    Well, for the outer space questions you could drive him to Waterloo to visit the Steven Hawking centre for astrophysics where the smartest minds in existence are grappling with the origins of the Universe… 🙂

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    I had to leave another message to wave to my cousins 🙂
    So fun how the internet brings us together on your blog ♥

  5. Sarah says:

    What a lovely post! And what a clever six-year-old boy! 🙂

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  9. Krysten says:

    Stumbled across your blog today via Oh She Glows. This is lovely! I smiled reading through the whole thing. Nothing like little children to make us aware that no experience, degree, or knowledge can prepare us for everything…especially them! Thank you for sharing this little piece of sunshine!

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  11. Sweet…. This reminds of many many Qs and As with my daughter. It’s amazing that they ponder so much and so deeply -and then quickly change direction and fall asleep while we are left dumbfounded.

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